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Grey Lady of Hayes Arms

Hayes Arms Hotel, Northiam, East Sussex Apparition Unknown

In the quaint village of Northiam, Sussex, the historic Hayes Arms Hotel stands as a hub of paranormal activity. Guests and staff have reported strange occurrences, including sightings of a mysterious woman. This attractive thirty year old lady, dressed in grey with a white hat, has manifested in at least one bedroom. Her presence is a fleeting glimpse, leaving more questions than answers about her identity and connection to the hotel.

Further adding to the hotel's ghostly reputation is the tale of a spinning wheel that once stood in the bar. This antique piece of furniture was said to turn itself, and sometimes, a phantom old lady would appear alongside it. Although the spinning wheel has long since gone, the legend of the ghostly apparitions remains. The incidents were documented in 1978, with multiple witnesses corroborating the sightings of the grey lady and the phantom old lady. While it's unclear whether these ghosts still manifest, their history has become an integral part of the Hayes Arms' mystique.

Historical Context

The Hayes Arms Hotel has been a Northiam landmark for centuries, serving as a gathering place for locals and travellers alike.

Location

Location Details

Location Type
Hotel
Activity Types
Visual
Witness Credibility
Multiple Witnesses
Threat Level
Harmless
Accessibility
Public Access
Date / Era
1978
Postcode Area
TN21

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